A Few Words

Who has played an important role in your life? Mentors have for me.

Starbucks is my “office” today where creative writing about mentors…will surely happen. You know how your mind drifts when you ought to be focused on an important project? Mine wandered…; my gaze shifted to the window and beyond where a frisky white, standard-size poodle yanked on her leash, and pulled the spry older man attached to it. This scenario somehow inspired me to write about mentoring….I know it’s a stretch to connect the two; however, more about the dog in a few sentences.

Mentors, I decided early on in my professional career, can be any age, size, and shape, etc., that inspire "movement." Mentors are mostly successful people interested in YOU and your success, professional or personal. They ask direct questions and provide honest (sometimes blunt) feedback. If you come up with a bunch of reasons why you can’t do something, they ask you “Why”? Mentors give sound advice, provide assignments, and keep you focused on your goal when you get off balance.

Sometimes mentors only have to say a few words which profoundly affect your direction in life. In my case, on three different occasions, those words were: “Go for it,” “Just do it” (thanks Nike); and “Just jump in (Megan)”! These small though pivotal words moved me to return to work after my second child turned four; select a field of study and finish my college degree; and write articles related to professional organizing.

Back to the dog…as seen through my eyes, the leashed dog tugging the man resulted in him moving. Likewise, mentors provide a gentle nudge or tug (the dog—smile) and encourage action. They motivate one to make changes, big or small—no excuses allowed!

Need a “tug”? Find a mentor!

Edited by Two Twins